you fag
you fag
a lot of people use gay/faggot/queer in a derog manner in their everyday speech... but they deny that they're homophobes
a recent encounter with a regular munter...
"shut up you faggot"
"don't like people of my sexual preference huh? afraid of us? or just not comfortable with sexuality?" (everytime someone calls me "gay" i like to reply with accusations of homophobia... just my way really...)
"no i'm not saying that you're gay, and i don't have anything against homosexuals, fuck up, i just think you're a faggot"
so uh
discuss language, maybe?
a recent encounter with a regular munter...
"shut up you faggot"
"don't like people of my sexual preference huh? afraid of us? or just not comfortable with sexuality?" (everytime someone calls me "gay" i like to reply with accusations of homophobia... just my way really...)
"no i'm not saying that you're gay, and i don't have anything against homosexuals, fuck up, i just think you're a faggot"
so uh
discuss language, maybe?
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Actually, the one I keep catching myself doing is using "gay" for something bad. As in, "that is SO gay." I think that's a really bad one, because it attaches negative connotations to being gay.
Now I have a running in-joke with people where you instead say, "That is so fuckin' straight" for something bad. "That is completely hetero."
Now I have a running in-joke with people where you instead say, "That is so fuckin' straight" for something bad. "That is completely hetero."
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Its strange, Homophobia (and Racism) seem so outdated to me when I hear people say 'fag' or (white people) say 'nigger' it seems almost quaint.
But yeah, it sucks when you know you have no homophobia inside you but you find yourself saying 'fag' or 'thats fucken gay'. I guess its a primary/secondary school hangover.
But yeah, it sucks when you know you have no homophobia inside you but you find yourself saying 'fag' or 'thats fucken gay'. I guess its a primary/secondary school hangover.
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pisses me off no end sometimes when people use gay or fag like its a bad thing or something, my responses usually go something like cires. actually bothered making a complaint about someone at uni using fag like that and they got in a bit of strife haha 

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yes its true I cringe and I do also beleive though whether it's contextual or your motives or belief's, such as somone going on all day anbout how fags are taking over and that guitar solo is gay.
it certainly doesn't help in attitudes to people who get enough shit already, look i did it again, I don't mean they get covered in shit literally but they may as well do.
it certainly doesn't help in attitudes to people who get enough shit already, look i did it again, I don't mean they get covered in shit literally but they may as well do.
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Im sure theres a lot of pissed off old people who used to like using "gay" to mean happy. Ive heard my grandparents do it a fair bit.
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Matt wrote:Actually, the one I keep catching myself doing is using "gay" for something bad. As in, "that is SO gay." I think that's a really bad one, because it attaches negative connotations to being gay.
Now I have a running in-joke with people where you instead say, "That is so fuckin' straight" for something bad. "That is completely hetero."
I had some gay friends who used to say stuff like that.
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i stopped using it...and broke my lil brother of the habit too.
the only time i'll use it is in a self ironic fashion.
oh...there was one time where i drove a flat full of pink polo shirted rugger heads into a frenzy:
OI! cocksucker, learn to park your car properly
what? did you call me gay?
no, i said you were a cocksucker, and that you park poorly because you're in a hurry to fit in the flat daisy chain before the rugby starts
*cue running away*
the only time i'll use it is in a self ironic fashion.
oh...there was one time where i drove a flat full of pink polo shirted rugger heads into a frenzy:
OI! cocksucker, learn to park your car properly
what? did you call me gay?
no, i said you were a cocksucker, and that you park poorly because you're in a hurry to fit in the flat daisy chain before the rugby starts
*cue running away*
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I think Mel said it best you breeders, hetero is so out right now, they fuck up everything, kill heteros, gay power.
damn white people, nobody who uses it as a general description for themselves likes for it it to be used as a term for all things bad, almost bringing it back to a bigots point of view.
I've given up though, so many peole use it, sumtimez I do sumtimez I don't but yea it's wrong.
damn white people, nobody who uses it as a general description for themselves likes for it it to be used as a term for all things bad, almost bringing it back to a bigots point of view.
I've given up though, so many peole use it, sumtimez I do sumtimez I don't but yea it's wrong.
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I used to not do it and now I oft find myself saying that something is 'gay' or 'homo-fucking-fag-nuts.' I don't actually like doing it but then calling someone a 'fucken 'tard', a 'useless spastic cock-monkey' or 'Phil Collins' is also abusive to whole other sections of society if it is to be taken in the context that 'gay' means 'homosexual', and I think it was meant to be taken in that context, at least initially. Moral lesson, terms of abuse are prejudicial and it is wrong but people do it more often than they think.
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To me gay has many connotations, it means "happy" "homosexual" "idiot" and "effeminate" All the terms are exclusive of each other.
It's like "motherfucker" that has good and bad connotations. Mothers need loving too!
It's like "motherfucker" that has good and bad connotations. Mothers need loving too!
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oi!
yea like cock
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its the connatation its made or taken in.
if you mean that your a damn human and you say it with such bitter vitriol, it could be taken as an insult becasue that person doesn't know why your so angry at them and people don't like to be wrong
I suggest not going up to a 'gay' perosn and saying 'fag' unless unless you know them or you want to get smacked.
mind you be like going up to a holocaust survivor and going jew! it can be a slippery slope if at the same time your not setting others straight on their connatation.
I think more people should say 'meh' and dance in the pale light of the moon' ahahaha.


if you mean that your a damn human and you say it with such bitter vitriol, it could be taken as an insult becasue that person doesn't know why your so angry at them and people don't like to be wrong

I suggest not going up to a 'gay' perosn and saying 'fag' unless unless you know them or you want to get smacked.
mind you be like going up to a holocaust survivor and going jew! it can be a slippery slope if at the same time your not setting others straight on their connatation.
I think more people should say 'meh' and dance in the pale light of the moon' ahahaha.
yeah thats a pretty good point and is something that can significantly contribute to crushing someones self esteem for years. i've done it myself around some really good friends who i in no way would even dream of wanting to hurt or make feel bad. it's worth noting how some throw away comment about some obese person you see across the road, on telly or whatever can effect someone who is senstive about their weight.
some amazing beautiful people i know and love have been pretty messed up and made to feel like shit about themselves by arseholes telling them they are fat or whatever, or just by the bullshit portrayal of the 'ideal' body imaged jammed down our throats by the media. and a silly comment made without thinking can bring back all those feelings for them. and it sucks. and i kick myself everytime i do it without thinking
some amazing beautiful people i know and love have been pretty messed up and made to feel like shit about themselves by arseholes telling them they are fat or whatever, or just by the bullshit portrayal of the 'ideal' body imaged jammed down our throats by the media. and a silly comment made without thinking can bring back all those feelings for them. and it sucks. and i kick myself everytime i do it without thinking
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