Re: Liz Shaw now has a blog...
Posted: Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:14 pm
Oh my fuck, is he at large in mainstream society now? Please tell me no...
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dave spotless wrote:Wednesday, December 15, 2010
A young couple I saw at the last party.
New blog! - Party anecdotes here.
So I was at an outdoor party this weekend, a 1 night affair, around 500 people.
Anyway - I saw this young couple - I guess they were about 16 or 17, both pretty attractive kids (slim, didn't smoke that I saw). When I first saw them, they were either cuddling or holding hands, and my first thought (directed at the guy) was 'wow - lucky you - you've got a good thing going on there'.
Later, as the party was getting into full swing, I was near the front of the dance floor, got my dance on, and I see them, doing the guy-standing-behind-girl-with-his-arms-around-here. At this point I was dancing in the vincinity of some cool quite high energy girls. I said/thought 'Man that's bullshit!' with a kinda aggressive vibe directed at him - the idea being that his dancing was just really low energy - he wasn't stirring it up and interacting with others. I got quite a good vibe response to this - that yeah - I was just encouraging him to lift the energy.
Then a few moments later, as a kind of diplomatic compromise - (because generally you don't like to disagree with people/ how they live, unless it's a particularly nasty vibe you're going for ) - I was like 'well alright if he wants to be getting lush with his girl - maybe they could be getting freaking and giving us a show'. So either way - I felt like I was encouraging these guys to pick things up.
Anyway - I started thinking about why this guy felt the need to be constantly cuddling his girlfriend. (At this point I hadn't really had any thoughts directed at the girl - except that she was pretty decent looking, and that the guy was lucky to have her).
It felt very much like there was some insecurities going on.
What it seemed like is the guy was trying to get into the girl - but at same time didn't want to be seen public ally doing it.
Anyway - in what was a bit of a lightbulb moment, was the thought that perhaps they hadn't had sex yet! And this seem to resonate pretty well, though it is all entirely speculative. But at that point, I did have a thought directed toward the girl, that she should take the initiative and go get him off so they can get on and party. Lol.
I later saw them. Near the fire, she was sleeping and he had his arms around her, kinda half kissing her face. I got the feeling that this vibe had been going on all night.
But then later, during the day, I (think it was him) saw him on the dance floor, just him self, and yeah - he did seem to be more engaged with the music.
Ok, story hasn't been as in depth as I would like, but I tried.
Posted by spots2012 at 5:29 PM 0 comments
the croc wrote:Spots' Blog wrote:Steve had a 'PunkAs' potluck last night. I wasn't allowed to go but I turned up anyway because I knew they were just joking. There were two young punks there, a guy and a girl who looked like they didn't know anybody but I caught them looking at each other across the room. I grabbed the girls hand and led her over to the guy and then left them to it. I hid behind the curtain to watch my matchmaking come into fruition. Nothing much was happening tho as there was loud punk music playing on the stereo and no one was dancing. What this party needed was some really deep psy trance. As I was thinking about getting some of my home made music out of my bag steve caught me behind the curtain and kicked me out of the house for "being a creep." If it's creepy trying to make two strangers fall in love and then watching them from behind a curtain then I don't know what this world is coming to. I managed to find a deck chair outside that I could stand on so I could keep watching through the window. I tried to send positive thought signals to the young couple but Steve's glass must have been too thick or something because the girl left to go into the kitchen. About this time the neighbor set their dog on me and I had to make a quick get away
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